Thursday, February 19, 2009
Act as if
So I'm starting to realize that my friends do not understand what I'm going through. So I just decided to keep my mouth shut and act as if I'm over my baby's death. I can express myself here and in my grief therapy. This is so hard to go through when your friends don't even have kids. They can't relate.
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It is so hard for people who have no idea what it is like. I have had people say some crappy things and they do not even realize it. Sometimes I will tell them and sometimes I just blog it out. I guess it depends on who they are but the thing that really sucks is it does feel like people think that you should get over it within a week or so but they do not understand that it will always be with you. The grief will come and go and a time goes on there will hopefully be longer periods in between the really bad times but it will always be with you. She was YOUR BABY and you can grieve however, whatever, and whenever you want. I am sorry because I know you feel alone and I hope you find peace. Sending you lots of hugs!!!
ReplyDeleteA concise and honest truth. So very, hurtfully true. I know what you mean, as I'm sure others do.
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